Recently I was in class discussing the essay "The Cruel Spectacle of ‘The Whale'" by Roxane Gay on the film (you guessed it) The Whale. Our professor divided us all into groups and told us to dissect Gay's remarks and analysis. The goal of the group discussion was to identify what Gay was trying to convey, since her thesis wasn't plainly stated but rather spread through the paragraphs. Personally I thought it was less of an essay with heavy focus on a specific thesis that she wanted to argue and prove points for (like an argumentative essay) and more of a think piece, with stream of consciousness and reactive descriptions.
Critical Thinking is not "Looking for Reasons to Complain"
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The unofficial Georgia Byrd's rules to how to be a better human being
I watched the movie Last Holiday (2006) and I can feel the energy of life-enjoyment and appreciation flow through me. This is a movie that I first watched when I was a child; I randomly found it on cable when I was bored surfing through the channels. I was a crying mess when I finished watching the movie back then and I am a crying (less messy) mess now.
There is a scene in the movie (if you have watched it, you know what I'm talking about) with Georgia walking on the ledge of the fancy hotel where she's been staying and try to talk a man out of jumping. He asks her what he should do with his life, since there's nothing out there for him, and Georgia responds with "I don't know. I don't have Georgia Byrd's 5 rules to how to be a better human being."
And I just thought, well, that would be a good read.
So here we have it, my unofficial Georgia Byrd's rules to how to be a better human being. Not five, because based on the movie, I think we can learn more than five things from the wonderful character that is Georgia.
- People are worth more than they can give you. Just like you are worth more than what you can buy for others.
- Sometimes you just have to jump into the opportunity, even if you're afraid, even if those around you are afraid of doing it, even if things will be completely different when you get to the other side.
- A job position that is closer to entry-level does not make a person a nobody, and they deserve just as much respect as the company owner. You know, both are just simple mortal people.
- Know your neighbors, and if possible, foster community with them. You don't have to be in an endless exchange of borrowing cups of sugar, but I think that just knowing someone who can check on you right away is good for life.
- Just eat the food. I know that in society, we tend to have a fear of being fat, but indulging during a trip or at a party will not make you a bad person.
- Sometimes you just have to put your feelings on the table. Maybe the other person feels the same way; and if they don't oh well, at least you didn't let the feeling fester inside you.
- Walk away from situations before you find yourself in a bad place like Georgia did. Maybe it cannot be a job because *motioning all around us*, but all the other things that you have control over, like your friendships or a toxic family member. You don't have to be at your breaking point to say "enough is enough."
- Friendships can be more important than love. Even though the movie ended with a happy romantic scene, Georgia's highlights were with her friend at work, with her little neighbor, and with the friends she made during her trip.
- Don't take advantage of other people who are unfamiliar to your culture. Yes, I'm talking about that scene with the hotel worker who returned the 1000 crown notes to Georgia when she didn't know how much to tip him. He was a good guy.
- Always be kind to service workers. Even if some of them have that Gen Z stare, (I promise that not all of us are like that) sometimes the issue is not the worker but the company... just food for thought here...
- Enjoy the little things. No. I do not want to be cliche here. Just hear me out. Feel the softness of the blankets, taste the specially roasted veggies in your food, enjoy your cup of wine, look around to the faces of your loved ones, cover yourself with your favorite coat.
- Don't buy things if you don't know where to put them or don't have the space for them. Yes, I'm looking at you with all those craft supplies.
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